The Ultimate Guide to Boudoir Photography in North Carolina

Written By Brad Poirier

Everything You Need to Know to Feel Empowered, Beautiful, and In Control — Right Here in New Bern

You didn’t stumble here by accident.

Maybe you’ve been quietly considering a boudoir session. Maybe you saw a friend do one and thought, could I? Maybe the thought scares you — and excites you at the same time.

That’s exactly how it starts.

This isn’t just about lingerie or lighting. It’s about liberation. And if you're looking for a boudoir photographers in North Carolina, this guide will walk you through exactly what you need to know — from choosing the right photographer to feeling confident on camera, to walking away with the kind of images that make you feel seen, not staged.

And yes — you can do this right here in New Bern.

Let’s go.

What Is Boudoir Photography, Really?

Boudoir photography is one of the most misunderstood genres in the photography world. Some people still picture a red satin bedspread, stilettos, and awkward poses. Others think it's just for brides or Instagram influencers.

It’s not.

At its core, boudoir is an intimate portrait experience — designed to reconnect you with the version of yourself who deserves to be celebrated exactly as you are.

It’s for:

  • Women starting over

  • Women who’ve had enough

  • Women who are done hiding

  • Women who are just beginning to show up as themselves

It's not about what you wear (or don’t wear). It's about what you walk away with: a deeper connection to yourself, and images that remind you of your strength and beauty every damn day.

And in case you were wondering: you don't need to know how to pose, wear lingerie, or be in a relationship to do this. You just need to be ready to show up for yourself.

Why Women Across North Carolina Are Booking Boudoir Sessions

Boudoir isn’t just a photo trend. It’s a movement — especially for women in North Carolina looking for something more than “just pictures.”

Here’s what I hear over and over again:

“I just turned 40 and needed to do this for me.”
“I’m tired of waiting for permission to feel beautiful.”
“I wanted to remember this version of me — not 10 pounds ago, not ‘after,’ just now.”
“I’m finally reclaiming my body after years of being told to hide it.”

From Raleigh to Wilmington, Charlotte to right here in New Bern — women are realizing that boudoir is a way to rewrite the narrative. For many, it’s part of their healing. For others, it’s part of their comeback.

But for all of them, it’s powerful.

Where to Book: The Flexible, Boutique Boudoir Experience in New Bern, NC

Let’s get one thing straight: you do not need a giant, neon-lit boudoir warehouse with pink champagne fountains and a waiting room full of strangers.

You need comfort. Privacy. A space that adapts to you.

That’s why I don’t operate out of a one-size-fits-all boudoir studio. Instead, I use a variety of intimate, curated spaces around New Bern, depending on the vibe and style you want:

  • Charming bed & breakfasts with gorgeous bridal suites

  • Clean, stylish Airbnb rentals with natural light and texture

  • A cozy rented boudoir studio when that classic glam vibe is your thing

  • Or even my own portrait studio, with backdrops, props, and a comfortable, minimal setting

Each session is customized to the mood you want. We discuss it all in your consultation — from lighting style to setting. And I’ll handle the logistics of booking the space so you don’t have to lift a finger.

This isn’t about volume. It’s about you having a space that feels like it was built just for your moment.

What to Expect in a Boudoir Photography Session

Let’s walk through what the experience is really like — so there are no surprises, just a whole lot of empowerment.

Step 1: Consultation

We start with an in home consultation to go over your goals, vision, vibe, and any nerves you’re bringing with you. This is also where we’ll talk about location, outfits, and what you want these images to say.

You don’t need to have all the answers. You just need to show up — I’ll take it from there.

Step 2: Session Day

You’ll arrive to a space that’s quiet, welcoming, and 100% yours for the day. Hair and makeup kicks things off while we ease into the vibe.

Then we shoot.

  • I guide you through every single pose

  • I demonstrate movements so you’re never left wondering what to do

  • I direct expressions with humor, compassion, and intention

  • We build confidence with every click

By the 10-minute mark, you’ll forget you were ever nervous.

Step 3: Same-Day Reveal

This is the part most clients don’t expect to love as much as they do. You’ll see your images the same day, and most women are shocked by what they see — not because of editing, but because they finally see themselves the way others do.

You pick your favorites. We talk through products and packages. And you walk away glowing.

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What Should I Wear for a Boudoir Session?

First of all — breathe. You don’t need to buy a suitcase full of lingerie to have an incredible session. Boudoir is about your version of sexy, not some magazine editor’s.

Here’s how I help you choose what to wear:

Option 1: Cozy & Casual

Think oversized sweaters, soft knits, boyshorts, or tank tops. This vibe is perfect for women who want their session to feel more like a Sunday morning than a Friday night out.

Option 2: Classic & Bold

Lingerie sets, bodysuits, corsets, robes, garters — if you’re feeling powerful and want to tap into your inner goddess, this is where she lives.

Option 3: Bare & Beautiful

Some women choose implied nude or full nude portraits — nothing exposed you don’t want exposed. Just shape, light, shadow, and softness.

Bonus Tip: Sentimental Pieces

  • Your partner’s shirt

  • A meaningful necklace

  • That killer pair of heels you never wear in public

Bring at least 2–4 outfits. I’ll help style them based on what works best for the space, lighting, and mood.

And yes — I’ll guide you on everything, including how to pose and move in each outfit. No guesswork. No awkward fumbling.

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How to Prepare for a Boudoir Session

Feeling nervous? That’s normal. 99% of my clients tell me they’re excited but anxious — especially about being photographed in a vulnerable way.

Here’s how to prep like a pro (without spiraling):

1. Rest & Hydrate

Get a good night’s sleep and drink extra water the day before. It’s not about weight or skin — it’s about feeling present, not puffy or drained.

2. Grooming

Do what feels good for you. Get your nails done if you want. Exfoliate and moisturize the day before — but skip any new products that might irritate your skin.

3. Wardrobe Prep

Try on everything you plan to bring. Do a mirror check. Remove tags or stickers. Bring backups. I promise it’s worth the few extra minutes.

4. Set an Intention

This part is big. Take five minutes and ask:

Why am I doing this?
Is it to reclaim confidence? Celebrate your body? Say “I’m enough” out loud for the first time?

Hold onto that reason. It will carry you through the session — and it will radiate from your images.

Who Is Boudoir Photography Really For?

Short answer? You.

You don’t need to be:

  • A model

  • A size 2

  • A bride

  • In a relationship

  • In love with your body

  • Over your insecurities

You just need to be open to the possibility that you are already worth photographing exactly as you are.

Boudoir is for:

  • Moms rediscovering themselves

  • Women over 40 owning their power

  • Survivors reclaiming their bodies

  • Creatives who want to feel seen

  • Women in transition — between jobs, identities, chapters

Every stretch mark, every scar, every curve — they’re all part of your story. And in the right light (my job), those parts aren’t flaws. They’re features.

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How Much Does a Boudoir Session Cost?

Investing in a boudoir session is about more than just the photos — it’s about the experience of seeing yourself in a new light.

My boudoir session start at $400 and include:

  • One-hour private session

  • Pre-session consultation

  • Hair & Makeup

  • Expert posing guidance

  • Same-day image reveal

  • Access to a curated shooting space (B&B, Airbnb, studio, or my private setup)

  • Gallery of at least 50 images to choose from

We’ll select your favorite images to keep and go through all of our package options. Clients typically spend anywhere between $1,000 - 3,000 for an album package, but some have spent as much as $10,000+ if they love all their images and wanted to order framed prints for their bedroom.

No hard sells. Just real options.

Why New Bern Is the Hidden Gem for Boudoir Photography in North Carolina

You might assume you need to drive to Raleigh or Charlotte for a luxury boudoir session — but you don’t.

New Bern, NC offers something that big cities can’t: intimacy. Calm. A personal experience.

Here’s what makes it magic:

  • Boutique inns with charm and natural light

  • Easy access to stunning waterfront views and historic buildings

  • Local partners that help me create the perfect setting

  • And a photographer (hey, that’s me) who only books one client at a time — no back-to-back factory-line shoots

Whether you live nearby or travel in from another part of the state, your session here will feel less like a production and more like an escape into your best self.

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Ready to Book? Here’s What Happens Next

This is the part where most clients hover. You’re so close — but nerves show up.

Here’s your permission slip:

You don’t need to lose 10 pounds.
You don’t need to practice in the mirror.
You don’t need to “be sexy.”
You just need to say yes to yourself.

Click here to book your consultation
I’ll walk you through every step. We’ll pick a date, a location, a vibe — and I’ll answer every single question you have.

This isn’t just a photo session. It’s a milestone.

Let’s create something unforgettable.

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You are not too old.
You are not too late.
You are not too much.
You are exactly enough — and it’s time the world saw that.

Brad Poirier
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